Dangerous Chemical substances and Body Burden

For March and April I'm performing “Green” and body-safe items for evaluations. So generally, consumers are unaware of what components and chemical compounds go into solutions and I assume it's critical to become educated about it. (Read my short article “Sex Toy Materials-Snakes Oils in Attractive Packaging”.) So nowadays I'm beginning off with an information guide to damaging chemical substances that may be in individual lubricants.

I am usually on the look-out for the ideal lubricant and have higher standards when it comes to what goods I'll put inside of me. I generally study labels around the foods I consume and I also study labels on my lubes. I choose to utilize water-based lubes that are organic and organic (whenever attainable) together with paraben and chemical totally free. Here’s why. Glass Dildos have nice appearance just like an art in your bedroom. The first time meet this glass dildo you will just look it as a common or expensive gift on the shaves.

Damaging Chemicals and Body Burden

Sixty % of all chemical substances we put on our skin ends up inside the blood stream and lubricants could possibly be absorbed via the mucus membranes from the vagina and anus a lot more so simply because there is no barrier for protection. Several individual lubricants and sensual merchandise contain hazardous chemical compounds that make chemical physique burden which can be responsible for several health ailments. You can uncover out additional about toxic chemicals in cosmetics and private products in the Cosmetics Database plus the Campaign for Protected Cosmetics. Vibrators may the most favorite sex toys for women. Lady will enjoy unlimited climax with the different vibration.

Parabens- Parabens (including Methylparabens and Propylparabens) are a group of chemical substances employed as preservatives within the cosmetics and are made use of for their bacteriocidal and fungicidal properties. Research have identified that parabens might be absorbed through the skin and may mimic the hormone estrogen, which has been linked to breast cancer. Parabens have also been recognized to decrease the sperm cell count in males, and market allergic reactions on the skin such as burning and itching. Grapefruit seed extract (though all-natural, also known as Citrus seed extract and Citrus grandis) is usually a paraben and need to be avoided because it has recognized to become an eye irritant in low concentrations.

DEA- Diethanolamine is really a chemical wetting agent in cosmetics that assists retain a creamy consistency in lotions and creams. DEA can react with other components in cosmetic formulations to kind carcinogens which might be readily absorbed via the skin and has been linked with stomach, esophagus, liver and bladder cancers.

Glycerine- Glycerine (a close relation to glucose or sugar, also called Glycerine or Glycerol) is made use of as a sweetener and preservative in cosmetics and has been linked to yeast infections in females who are prone to them if greater than 5% and more than that can damage mucus membranes.

Menthol- Synthetic menthol along with natural Peppermint Oil may be irritating and drying to a woman’s genitals and damages mucus membranes.

Petrochemicals- Petrochemicals in oil-based merchandise including Mineral Oil (Liquidum Paraffinum), Petrolatum (petroleum jelly), Paraffin oil (lamp oil or premium Kerosine) or Paraffin wax, coat the skin halting its normal functions and are linked to cancer or other important wellness complications. Petrochemicals have been restricted in cosmetic manufacturing.

Propylene Glycol- Found in brake fluid, anti-freeze, paint solvents, and polyester compounds, Propylene Glycol is employed as a solvent in a lot of pharmaceuticals, and is utilised as a humectant food additive, emulsification agent, and moisturizer in cosmetics. The oral toxicity of propylene glycol is low, but substantial quantities may cause perceptible well being harm in humans. Some individuals could receive irritation from it like females with yeast infections and could lead to intense burning and is an irritant to the eyes and skin.

Polyethylene Glycol (PEG) - PEG is used as a thickener and could be the basis of a lot of skin creams, as cetomacrogol, and sexual lubricants, regularly combined with glycerin. It strips the skin’s all-natural moisture, is an eye and skin irritant, a possible carcinogen and may generate extreme acidosis, central nervous technique harm and congestion.

L-Arginine- Is an amino acid and plays a vital part within the healing of wounds, immune function, plus the release of hormones. Like the drug sildenafil citrate (Viagra), L-arginine is believed to improve the action of nitric oxide, which relaxes muscle tissues surrounding blood vessels (vasodilation) supplying the penis. Because of this, blood vessels in the penis dilate, escalating blood flow, which assists retain an erection. The distinction in how they perform is that Viagra blocks an enzyme referred to as PDE5 which destroys nitric oxide and L-arginine is utilized to produce nitric oxide. People today with genital herpes shouldn't take L-arginine due to the fact it may aggravate their symptoms.

Aluminum Sulphate- Aluminum Sulphate (also referred to as Alum) is an inorganic salt made use of in “tightening” items for example shrink creams and antiperspirants, in addition to food pickling and baking powder. This compound has an astringent property which causes the vaginal tissues to dehydrate and swell, and could be an irritant. Adverse effects of aluminum are currently identified to be much more chronic (occurring over the long-term) than acute (occurring in the quick term) due to the fact it accumulates over time. Aluminum has been shown to be a neurotoxic compound if it really is allowed to enter the bloodstream. Long-term exposure of patients may possibly cause encephalopathy (defect on the brain) and/or bone mineralization problems. Aluminum has also been suggested as a result in of Alzheimers disease, Lou Gehrig’s illness along with other forms of senile dementia.

Nonoxynol-9- Nonoxynol-9 is definitely an abrasive detergent and was created as a spermicide utilised in condoms, lubricants and sex toy cleaners. It was also shown to help kill the AIDs virus in clinical tests (in test tubes). Nevertheless, it has been located to leave abrasions and lesions within the vaginal and to strip away the protective rectal lining within the anus, both of which could potentially improve probabilities of get AIDs, STDs and skin irritations.

Benzocaine- Benzocaine is a neighborhood anesthetic normally applied as a topical discomfort reliever in anesthetic ointments such as oral gels for teething babies. Benzocaine can also be utilized as a numbing agent in anal lubes like Anal-Eze, oral desensitizing creams like Excellent Head Oral Gel, a pleasure prolonging condoms like Trojan Extended Pleasure. Numbing agents are potentially harmful when applied anally or orally as you could not really feel pain which could result in serious injury from vigorous thrusting that could tear or harm mucus membranes or cause bruising. Furthermore, over-application of oral anesthetics can improve the risk of pulmonary aspiration by relaxing the gag-reflex and allowing regurgitated stomach contents, oral secretions (or sperm!) to enter the airway. Benzocaine also is a well-known trigger of methemoglobinemia, a situation inwhich the red blood cells cannot bind oxygen, causing shortness of breath, cyanosis, mental status alterations, headache, fatigue, exercising intolerance, dizziness and loss of consciousness. Due to the fact it might be applied in topical creams with a concentration as a great deal as 20%, it's not hard to administer a dose enough to bring about this challenge. Serious methemoglobinemia can cause dysrhythmias, seizures, coma and death.

Oils- Oil based lubes break down latex and harm condoms, dental dams, diaphragms, and cervical caps, therefore reducing their effectiveness. Oils coat the vagina and anus which tends to make is difficult for the vagina or anus to “flush” itself, leaving you open to bacterial or other infections. It may take the vagina 3-5 days to break down and remove oils, so oil-based lubes shouldn't be made use of for vaginal or anal sex and are only advisable as male masturbatory aids. This goes for other varieties of oils like vegetable oils, massage oils, Vaseline, WD-40, and Crisco. These oils may cause serious irritation, clog pores, don’t let the skin to breathe, will not be condom secure and ought to by no means go anywhere close to the vagina.

Purchaser Beware: Claims of All-natural and/or Organic

Now, you'd believe that any solution that says it is actually organic or organic could be natural and organic, ideal? This isn't always the case. Lots of cosmetic corporations make claims to sell and market place their solutions. Some items, like Clairol Herbal Essences claimed to offer you customers an ‘organic practical experience,’ however the product isn't organic or herbal and consists of various petrochemicals that happen to be recognized toxins. Like sex toys, personal care goods will not be regulated so companies are able to obtain away with generating false claims. It can be for that reason important to study labels and do your investigation.

And, simply because something is organic and organic, it does not imply it can be good for you or body-safe. Keep in mind, a lot of parabens are derived from natural sources like blueberries and grapefruit seed (see parabens above), but are identified irritants for the skin. Cow shit is also each organic and organic but I wouldn’t use it as a individual lubricant. So even if a product is created of natural ingredients, it may not be body-safe. Study the labels my pals! And preserve your vagina, anus, penis and oral components satisfied.

I Impersonated A Chick On Craigslist Casual Encounters

After reading Exploring Online Hookups on the rabbitwrite blog, I was inspired to experiment with Craigslist Casual Encounters.Prostate massagers are male sex toys that were designed to stimulate the prostate gland. I’ve actually had a bit of success with Casual Encounters in the past. Four years ago I went on a few dates with a model I met on CL when I was living in Tennessee. We had a great time but it went nowhere. Four years ago is a long time in CL world and I know it’s changed a lot since then. I wanted to revisit and see what the landscape was like.

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The first thing I did was post a W4M ad in the Casual Encounters section of CL. If you’re not familiar with Casual Encounters, it’s the most entertainingly smarmy corner of the Internet. Ads from men and women, or what you think are men and women, are posted on a daily basis offering up no-strings-attached (NSA) encounters and hookups. Ads are usually 1-2 lines long and occasionally come with a pic, but usually not.

First, I posted an ad posing as a woman looking for a NSA encounter. I did the W4M ad to see what kind of response I would get and to sort of get the female perspective. I also posted an ad as a guy looking for the same, and will share those results in a second post.

Here’s my ad, click to expand:

A couple of notes:
I put in a few details that I thought seemed real, ie the city Orlando, her age (39), and her desired age range.

Acronyms: SWF = single white female, DDF = drug and disease free. There are TONS of acronyms on CL dating and I had to look most of them up in the urban dictionary.

The Results

The results, while not totally unexpected, were still mind blowing. In less than four hours, I received 87 emails, where only two of those were from obvious spammers (one with laptop links and the other for a swingers party at club). Of those 85 remaining dudes, 48 of them attached pictures, and 21 of those had dick pictures.

Many of the emails included basic stats like age, height, weight, race, location, and some of the emails contained only those stats and no other information. Age ranges were between 21 – 46. The guys came in all shapes and sizes. Some of them were married. Many of them thoughtfully included their full names and phone numbers.

Here’s a screenshot of a section of my inbox box just to give you an idea:


Takeaways For Her

It took me awhile to process all this, but here are some thoughts.

Most of the guys appeared to be real guys responding to an ad for a dirty hookup, so I’m not surprised that many of the dudes sent pics of their cocks. I can’t really blame them. What did surprise me were how many of these guys seemed like perfectly normal, decent looking, even clean cut dudes. Like, regular joes just looking to get laid. I imagine many of these guys also have Match.com accounts and look for dates that way. If I was a real chick looking for a hookup with a legit dude, I could easily leverage this system to get it.

For example, check out this guy. Looks like a reasonable, normal dude, right?

It was hard to filter all the emails because they came on so fast and furious. If you post a couple of times, you will literally get hundreds of emails. I do think that writing a longer, well thought out ad would accomplish some filtering because you would get a few guys to respond in kind, but that seems out of place in the Casual Encounters environment. There are simply no well written ads in this space. Besides, why bother? The guys are going to write you regardless of what crap you put out there. I could have set up 10 dates over 10 nights and it would taken me less than an hour if I wanted.

Of course, setting up dates off a CL ad is super sketchy and there’s a qualification process that needs to take place before the meetup. As a chick, you need to determine if the guy you’re emailing is indeed a real guy, safe, DDF, willing to be discreet, and then work out a system where you can do a face-to-face meetup and work out logistical issues and not get your ass killed in the process.

If you’re a chick and you post a NSA hookup, do you invite the guy directly to your house and just go at it, or do you meet in a neutral location first, have a qualification convo, and then close the deal? If I was a chick, working through that would scare the fuck out of me.

Last tip, and this is a weird one, but if you post an ad, expect it to get flagged as spam within a few hours. If you’re not familiar with this function, anyone browsing CL ads can flag an ad as spam, which means your ad will get removed in short order. I’m not exactly sure why this happens, but I think a lot of guys get frustrated and flag you if you don’t respond. My ad was flagged and removed after four hours. I’ve seen a few chicks re-posting their ads in W4M and asking the readers to specifically not flag them because they are, in fact, real.
Takeaways for Him

I have two big takeaways for the fellas who are checking out ads in the W4M section:

1. It’s super competitive. You are literally competing against 100s of guys, where all of them are emailing within a few hours of each other. I had dozens of emails within MINUTES of my post going live.

What lowers your odds even more is that very few of the ads represent legitimately attractive women. If I had to handicap it, I’d say your odds are less than 0.05% of scoring a cool hookup this way. The flipside is that it takes little time or energy to respond.

2. Most of the ads are fake and coming from spammers and scammers. I’m going to followup on this and explain fully. But, here’s an example of a fake ad:

This one is obviously fake. Note the shitty headline and the hilariously bad body text. I mean, really? I see dozens of these ads flow through each day in Casual Encounters and they’re all designed to either get your email address or take you through a process to extract money from you. Some of them are automated. It’s ingenius and sinister. That’s the game on CL these days. It’s a shadowy dungeon filled with pits, monsters, and booby traps.
Final Thoughts

At first, I wanted to get pissed about how easy it is for chicks to use something like CL to get dates and get laid, but there’s no reason for that. Even if she’s getting 100s of emails, it’s still dangerous and the likelihood of her having a good experience out of it are pretty slim. But, like any other online dating system, chicks can use this to get whatever they want if they know how to navigate it properly. Personally, I think it’s more efficient to leverage a system like Match.com if you’re a dude looking for NSA sex. Yes, it costs more, but nothing that will break the bank.

Guys, stop sending pictures of your penises to women! It’s terrible game and will get you nowhere.