Variety is the Spice of Life

Sex is a huge part of any relationship, whether you're sexually active all the time or tend to be the kind of couple that only gets it on every so often, sex is important. While the cuddly, cute, "let's make love" kind of sex is enjoyable, spicing things up can be just as much fun if not more. I've recently decided to take my sexual relationship and turn up the volume a few notches, and DAMN is it making a lot of noise.

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I've always been the kind of person to have plain old sex. Sure we do different positions and play around with surfaces but recently I've read the Fifty Shades series and it's given me a few ideas to make my sex life a lot more fun. Now I'm not saying, "tie me up and tell me how you like it." No, I'm just saying the book has given me a few ideas on how to make things more interesting. I've used toys before but never in bed with another person. Well I'm gonna tell you that was a big mistake. Ladies, we don't always reach that big "O" by doing different positions or having a bit of foreplay, for us it takes a bit more effort. Toys can really help you get there and they can be a whole lot of fun.

Giving him control of a vibrator or dildo can actually be a great way to rev things up. He can control the speed of things and the intensity of the vibrations. This can help you get off quickly or he can slowly torture you with slow rhythmic movement bringing you higher and higher until you can't take it anymore. Add a blindfold into the mix and holy hell. This way all you do is feel everything. Losing one sense can heighten all the others and when you reach a climax it'll be like nothing you've ever felt before. If you're not into the blindfold or you are too shy to just have your man looking at you completely naked, shut off all the lights and close the blinds. This way you still get some good sensory play but you have to feel your way around each other instead of seeing it. You'd be amazed how much not seeing things can be erotic.

Wanna take things a little further? Get restraints of some sort. Whether it's leather cuffs, fuzzy handcuffs, or simply a piece of fabric to hold your hands back, restraints can be a great tool. Either have him tie your hands back, or you tie his and let one person have the control. If you decide to tie his hands back...wow. Tease him in every way you know how and make him want you more than he ever has before. By the time you decide to free his hands he'll have to touch you all over the place and sex will be very intense. Think about it, if you couldn't touch your partner and then suddenly you're allowed to feel every part of them...trust me on this, you'll want to. Touching is very intimate and when it's taken away and given back, it can intensify things.

And if you're really not into the whole idea of vibrators and restraints, then simply try changing locations. You can have sex in your car, on your couch, on the floor, or in the shower. Even in the comfort of your own home there are tons of possibilities. Different surfaces give you the ability to have better leverage, especially when a girl is on top, or they can allow your guy to get even deeper. Try using a coffee table or a desk that is a perfect height for his pelvis to meet yours. Lay down on the surface and have him stand or kneel (this can work on a low couch too). He will be able to control all the movements and get incredibly deep. Standing is great if you're the same height, but if you're vertically challenged (like me), then find a way to make your height more even. Sex in heels can be great and him pushing you against a wall for support, wow, that's just steamy.

There are so many possibilities with sex and experimenting and if I were to go on this article would be pages, but this is just to keep in mind that toys can be used for more than just solo play and that there are many other ways to spice things up. Anyone wanna add to the list?

I Impersonated A Chick On Craigslist Casual Encounters

After reading Exploring Online Hookups on the rabbitwrite blog, I was inspired to experiment with Craigslist Casual Encounters.Prostate massagers are male sex toys that were designed to stimulate the prostate gland. I’ve actually had a bit of success with Casual Encounters in the past. Four years ago I went on a few dates with a model I met on CL when I was living in Tennessee. We had a great time but it went nowhere. Four years ago is a long time in CL world and I know it’s changed a lot since then. I wanted to revisit and see what the landscape was like.

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The first thing I did was post a W4M ad in the Casual Encounters section of CL. If you’re not familiar with Casual Encounters, it’s the most entertainingly smarmy corner of the Internet. Ads from men and women, or what you think are men and women, are posted on a daily basis offering up no-strings-attached (NSA) encounters and hookups. Ads are usually 1-2 lines long and occasionally come with a pic, but usually not.

First, I posted an ad posing as a woman looking for a NSA encounter. I did the W4M ad to see what kind of response I would get and to sort of get the female perspective. I also posted an ad as a guy looking for the same, and will share those results in a second post.

Here’s my ad, click to expand:

A couple of notes:
I put in a few details that I thought seemed real, ie the city Orlando, her age (39), and her desired age range.

Acronyms: SWF = single white female, DDF = drug and disease free. There are TONS of acronyms on CL dating and I had to look most of them up in the urban dictionary.

The Results

The results, while not totally unexpected, were still mind blowing. In less than four hours, I received 87 emails, where only two of those were from obvious spammers (one with laptop links and the other for a swingers party at club). Of those 85 remaining dudes, 48 of them attached pictures, and 21 of those had dick pictures.

Many of the emails included basic stats like age, height, weight, race, location, and some of the emails contained only those stats and no other information. Age ranges were between 21 – 46. The guys came in all shapes and sizes. Some of them were married. Many of them thoughtfully included their full names and phone numbers.

Here’s a screenshot of a section of my inbox box just to give you an idea:


Takeaways For Her

It took me awhile to process all this, but here are some thoughts.

Most of the guys appeared to be real guys responding to an ad for a dirty hookup, so I’m not surprised that many of the dudes sent pics of their cocks. I can’t really blame them. What did surprise me were how many of these guys seemed like perfectly normal, decent looking, even clean cut dudes. Like, regular joes just looking to get laid. I imagine many of these guys also have Match.com accounts and look for dates that way. If I was a real chick looking for a hookup with a legit dude, I could easily leverage this system to get it.

For example, check out this guy. Looks like a reasonable, normal dude, right?

It was hard to filter all the emails because they came on so fast and furious. If you post a couple of times, you will literally get hundreds of emails. I do think that writing a longer, well thought out ad would accomplish some filtering because you would get a few guys to respond in kind, but that seems out of place in the Casual Encounters environment. There are simply no well written ads in this space. Besides, why bother? The guys are going to write you regardless of what crap you put out there. I could have set up 10 dates over 10 nights and it would taken me less than an hour if I wanted.

Of course, setting up dates off a CL ad is super sketchy and there’s a qualification process that needs to take place before the meetup. As a chick, you need to determine if the guy you’re emailing is indeed a real guy, safe, DDF, willing to be discreet, and then work out a system where you can do a face-to-face meetup and work out logistical issues and not get your ass killed in the process.

If you’re a chick and you post a NSA hookup, do you invite the guy directly to your house and just go at it, or do you meet in a neutral location first, have a qualification convo, and then close the deal? If I was a chick, working through that would scare the fuck out of me.

Last tip, and this is a weird one, but if you post an ad, expect it to get flagged as spam within a few hours. If you’re not familiar with this function, anyone browsing CL ads can flag an ad as spam, which means your ad will get removed in short order. I’m not exactly sure why this happens, but I think a lot of guys get frustrated and flag you if you don’t respond. My ad was flagged and removed after four hours. I’ve seen a few chicks re-posting their ads in W4M and asking the readers to specifically not flag them because they are, in fact, real.
Takeaways for Him

I have two big takeaways for the fellas who are checking out ads in the W4M section:

1. It’s super competitive. You are literally competing against 100s of guys, where all of them are emailing within a few hours of each other. I had dozens of emails within MINUTES of my post going live.

What lowers your odds even more is that very few of the ads represent legitimately attractive women. If I had to handicap it, I’d say your odds are less than 0.05% of scoring a cool hookup this way. The flipside is that it takes little time or energy to respond.

2. Most of the ads are fake and coming from spammers and scammers. I’m going to followup on this and explain fully. But, here’s an example of a fake ad:

This one is obviously fake. Note the shitty headline and the hilariously bad body text. I mean, really? I see dozens of these ads flow through each day in Casual Encounters and they’re all designed to either get your email address or take you through a process to extract money from you. Some of them are automated. It’s ingenius and sinister. That’s the game on CL these days. It’s a shadowy dungeon filled with pits, monsters, and booby traps.
Final Thoughts

At first, I wanted to get pissed about how easy it is for chicks to use something like CL to get dates and get laid, but there’s no reason for that. Even if she’s getting 100s of emails, it’s still dangerous and the likelihood of her having a good experience out of it are pretty slim. But, like any other online dating system, chicks can use this to get whatever they want if they know how to navigate it properly. Personally, I think it’s more efficient to leverage a system like Match.com if you’re a dude looking for NSA sex. Yes, it costs more, but nothing that will break the bank.

Guys, stop sending pictures of your penises to women! It’s terrible game and will get you nowhere.

Rabbit Vibrators

For many women, vibrators have become a commonplace and the novelty of vibrators has started to wear off. After using dildos, classic vibrators and the jelly vibrators, women wanted something new and extraordinary. Rabbit vibrators were introduced to fill this void and since then their popularity has just soared and soared. Even today, Rabbit vibrators maintain their position as the best-selling vibrators. Find out more about Rabbit vibrators below.

Introduction on Rabbit vibrators

Rabbit vibrators are designed in a unique manner and are different from the conventional dildos and realistic vibrators. Owing to the unique shape of Rabbit vibrators, they cater not to one or two but three erogenous zones of women. Conventional vibrators were designed either to stimulate the vagina or the g-spot or the clitoris. Some were designed to stimulate both vagina and g-spot. However, none were designed to stimulate all the three erogenous zones and perhaps, this is the reason behind the growing fame and popularity of Rabbit vibrators.

Features of Rabbit vibrators

Rabbit vibrators have a shaft ranging from 6-8 inches, enough to satisfy the most demanding of women. The shaft consists of multiple beads that rotate to give satisfying orgasms. The curved tip of the shaft hits the g-spot directly and stimulates the most pleasurable spot of women. The bunny ears attached on the shaft take care of clitoral stimulation. Some Rabbit vibrators feature multi-speed controls, which is an added feature to make Rabbit vibrators truly pleasurable. Most women after using Rabbit vibrators swear by the orgasms they have after using them.

How to use Rabbit vibrators?

Before using a Rabbit vibrator, many women are as much thrilled as they are nervous. This is because this vibrator is completely unconventional and achieves so many feats at the same time, that women become nervous. If you are new to Rabbit vibrators and don know how to use them to gain maximum pleasure, then sit back and relax. Once you overcome the initial excitement and have a thorough look at the Rabbit vibrator, you will learn how to use it.

Some Rabbit vibrators come with separate control buttons, so that you can begin with one feature and then go to another. These vibrators are the best for newbies. Once you master the art of using simple Rabbit vibrators, you can go on to get other more complex Rabbit vibrators.

Jack Rabbit vibrator

The Jack Rabbit vibrator is also known as the Rabbit Pearl. You must not have missed this vibrator, if you watched the television series ex and the City? For the benefit of those, who didn see this series, the Jack Rabbit vibrator has become a highly popular vibrator because of its brief debut on television. It was unveiled in the episode titled he turtle and the hare?where the prim and proper Charlotte York used this powerful bunny for the first time and became a vibe-addict, shunning away all human company to be with her new found friend!

This vibrator has independent controls for vibration and rotation, so if you are new to Rabbit vibrators like Charlotte, you too can begin with this vibrator.

Jessica Rabbit vibrator

Jessica Rabbit vibrator is the improved version of Jack Rabbit vibrator. It has an integral control unit, which makes it easier for women to handle the vibrator and concentrate on fun rather than controls. If you don want to fumble around with a separate control unit, this vibrator will come handy. The Erotic Rabbit is the new and improved version of the Jessica Rabbit vibrator. It is said to be more pleasurable because of the dual rotation shaft. Most women opt for the Erotic Rabbit as opposed to the Jessica Rabbit.

Rechargeable Rabbit vibrator

Rabbit vibrators are very powerful and have many functions. Therefore, they consume quite a lot of batteries too. Rechargeable Rabbit vibrators take care of this problem. You don have to worry anymore about running out of batteries any more. Rechargeable Rabbit vibrators promise constant fun and pleasure.

Where to buy the best Rabbit vibes?

If going downtown to purchase Rabbit vibrators from local sex toys stores is not your cup of tea, the best option is to buy online. This option is convenient and helps you save time, money, energy and embarrassment too. However, make sure you opt for UK-based websites only, in order to get the best Rabbit vibes.